Pick a starting point & see how that works for you…you can always adjust.
The longest part of the journey is the first, decisive step.
(And, since you are working with a sports team, pick the trainers’ brains!)
Why are you so scared of a little hunger? Its only a feeling. I’d be way more scared about living with 100+ lbs of excess fat.
Hunger won’t actuallly harm you. It’s a totally natural part of the human condition. We are literally evolved to handle periods of fasting.
What we are not evolved for is being in a constant fed state with hyper palatable foods tempting us alll day long. You have to make a mental break and understand how highly toxic that is even if it satisfies a craving in the moment.
Really, the choice is yours. Learn to accept that hunger is normal and natural or accept carrying an enormous burden all day long wrecking havok on your metabolic system.