No online calculator is going to be exact. I would do what you’ve been doing (because it’s working).
If you want to play with it, slowly add some calories and see how it affects your weight loss. That’s really the only way to truly know how many calories you need to keep losing weight, and how many calories you will eventually need for maintenance.
They are using two different equations to estimate your TDEE from your age, sex, height, weight, and physical activity levels. TDEEcalculator.net uses the Mifflin-St Jeor equation and My Net Diary uses the Estimated Energy Requirements equation.
I don’t know which equation is generally considered more accurate. Mifflin-St Jeor has been found to be better than some other equations, but I don’t know if it’s ever been directly compared to the EER equation.
Both equations are only estimates, based on population measurements. You as an individual person might have a slightly higher or lower TDEE than the predicted population average for someone of your age, sex, height, weight.